For your safety and others, suicide watch posts are not allowed here and we reserve our right to remove similar posts at our discretion. r/raisedbyborderlines is an online forum, not a replacement for treatment or services. If you are in crisis and you work with a therapist, please contact them most will talk to you over the phone or get you an urgent appointment. Additional resources are available here and here. Rule 7: Suicidal posts and similar are not allowed Call emergency services (911, 999, 000, 112, etc.) if you are in danger of hurting yourself or others. As explained in Rule 2, we can’t safely serve people with BPD, but other subs likely can.ĭiscussion that mentions or is about “fleas” (maladaptive traits or behaviors picked up from your BPD parent) is currently forbidden due to safety concerns and lack of resources.
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If it’s reasonably likely that you have BPD, please seek professional evaluation, and avoid our sub, as it may trigger you. That said, due to the nature of BPD, we understand that not every RBB has the privilege of a clear diagnosis for their parent/s.ĭon't post or comment wondering if you have BPD. We aren't mental health professionals, and as such we aren't qualified to diagnose anyone. If you are uncertain whether your primary caregiver fits the criteria, please don't participate. Violating posts/comments will be removed with a warning repeated violations will result in a ban.
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Don't PM individual mods PM the mod team. Respect their spaces as we expect any of their members to respect ours.ĭon't solicit or offer PMs. Even if it's your own content.Įspecially don't post from, link to, or refer to BPD-related forums. Rule 5: Keep things about the sub strictly within the subĭon't reference or link to other subs. However, please respect our space for the reasons above.įor more on this, see About "not all pwBPD". If you have BPD and are dedicated to treatment, we know it's a difficult journey and you have our support. There's a time and place for that discussion, but it's not on a subforum for those with abusive parents with BPD. Stating this on our sub serves only to invalidate our experiences and will get you banned.Īsking "what about the feelings of people with BPD?" here will also get you banned. We know that not all people with BPD are like our parents.
Rule 4: No bullying, invalidating or apologist behavior Your content is likely to be triggering for us, and ours for you. This includes those with Cluster A, B or C personality disorders. As with Rule 2, this is a safety rule, not a statement that people with PDs are undeserving of help or support. We are unqualified and unable to provide a safe and appropriate space for people with any personality disorders. Rule 3: People with other PDs may not participate Violations, argument or protests of this rule will be met with a ban. This is a safe space for those with BPD parents. Subs for you include /r/BPD, /r/BPDSOFFA, /r/bpdlovingsupport, /r/BPD4BPD, and /r/BPDsraisedbyBPDs.ĭealing with a loved one with BPD, but not your parent? You're looking for /r/BPDlovedones. While you aren't able to participate here, please search Reddit for other subs that are suitable for your needs. This includes if you have BPD and have BPD parents, if you have no diagnosis but identify as BPD, and if you have a previous diagnosis regardless of whether you currently meet the DSM criteria. Therefore we cannot allow anyone who has Borderline Personality Disorder or similar disorders to participate here. While we respect that there are pwBPD who get treatment and help, this space is for children who suffered the abusive effect of parents who were – or continue to be – harmful.
Rule 2: This is a safe space for survivors – people with BPD cannot participate Repeated infractions may result in a ban. Direct messages to individual moderators will be ignored. This allows us to ensure everyone reads and understands the rules accurately.Īlways send questions/grievances to the mod team by putting /r/raisedbyborderlines in the To field. If you've read the rules, don't explain the rules to other members. Rule 1: Please read ALL the rulesĭon't ask other members for an explanation of a rule or where you can find it in the rules. We never take actions lightly, and we depend on the community to help us keep everyone safe.Īll our rules are non-negotiable. Unfortunately, we are a magnet for trolling.
Due to many members’ personal history with a parent who is abusive, self-harms, rages, blames, and obsesses, we work very hard to maintain a kind, supportive space. We take the safety of the sub members very seriously and moderate accordingly. In all cases, please remember to keep yourself safe! About moderation If you're new to Reddit, please review Reddit 101 before you participate here.
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